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Entrenador personal la instó a bajar de peso antes de su boda y su respuesta se convirtió en viral

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Cassie Young le dio una lección a un hombre que insistió en que no podía estar "satisfecha" con su cuerpo.

Después de dar a conocer la noticia de su matrimonioCassie Young tuvo que lidiar con una desagradable conversación.

La encargada de las redes sociales del programa de radio The Bert Show recibió un mensaje de un entrenador personal que se contactó con ella para ofrecerle sus servicios para que adelgazara antes del gran día.

Si bien al comienzo declinó amablemente de tomar la oferta, el hombre insistió en su propuesta. Además de meterse en algo que no era de su incumbencia, demostró una falta de tacto increíble al decirle "puedes aceptar tu aspecto, pero no puedes estar satisfecha con él. No puedes engañarte"

 

This guy reached out to me on Twitter with a pitch, and it spiraled into something else. I’m posting this because I want every woman and man to know that it does not MATTER what you look like. (I'm blue. He's gray. Swipe to read.) You are worthy. Love is out there for you. Life is waiting with open arms. It doesn’t matter if you’re skinny or fat or between the two or willowy or broad shouldered or peer shaped or like a board or anything in between. You get good stuff in life by being YOU. That's what matters. If you think of life as a “game” with being skinny as how you “win,” this guy is offering to play by the rules and get you there. I’m telling you the game is BOGUS. You don’t need the game. I reject the game. I REFUSE TO PLAY. It’s a fake construct that you can step outside of. Your inner-value and self-worth comes from YOU, not what you look like. Who gives a f**k if you got a few extra pounds. Or ten. Or twenty. Thirty. Whatever. If you are happy and healthy, that’s ALL that matters. Those pounds DO NOT DEFINE YOU OR YOUR WORTH. Don’t let people like this try to convince you otherwise, because they’ll try - but it’s because they don’t understand yet. They’re caught up in the game and can’t see it for what it is. You can. Life is waiting for you. It's too short to be spent worrying about a belly roll. Go be happy and live it to your fullest.

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Eso fue más de lo que Cassie Young quiso tolerar, así que subió a su cuenta de Instagram las capturas de toda la conversación donde le dio una lección de autoestima y aceptación personal.

"Tu valía depende de ti, no de tu aspecto. ¿A quién le importa que te sobren unos cuantos kilos? O diez. O veinte. O treinta. Qué más da. Si estás sano y eres feliz, eso es lo único que importa. Esos kilos de más no te definen; ni a ti, ni a tu valía. No dejes que los demás intenten convencerte de lo contrario; que lo van a intentar, pero porque aún no lo entienden".

 

 HATERS TO THE LEFT. I’ll be honest, yesterday the trolls got to me for a hot minute. Their comments didn’t hurt my feelings so much as stole my faith in the world. I was shocked that people could be SO cruel and SO nasty, and I wondered why we should even bother about fighting against this cold, biter, heartless Army Of The Dead. . And then you reached out. And you. And you and you and you. You told me your stories of ordering your first two piece. Your battles with eating disorders and self-acceptance. The struggle with loss in your family and weight gain because of depression and how you battle it every day, head held high. Or going into the water in a bathing suit to play with your kids and make memories for the first time instead of hiding under a beach towel. Or stories of your kids, who see the world through innocent, honest eyes, and don’t get what the problem with being overweight is (because to them there is no problem.) Or the heartbreaking stories of how you or your daughters or sisters were on the precipice, and all they needed to realize was that fat is literally just an adjective, and not a judgment on who they are as a person, and now they’re getting married. . Thank you guys. You drowned out the trolls. You checked on me to make sure I was ok. You slammed the haters and showed me the light again. Texts, Tweets, Emails, DMs, Facebook Messages. There’s not even a comparison to the level of love I have seen on the internet from @TheBertShow community - my radio family - and from absolute strangers. . If you are struggling, know we are out there. Not only the outspoken protestors, but also the silent allies. We will stand tall with you and we will win this fight. I promise you. . EVERY body is beautiful. . This photo is for you, trolls. Eat your  out. . . . #EffYourBeautyStandards #EffYourBodyStandards #MYPerfectBody #LoveYourBody #IAmWhoIAm #HatersGonnaHate #BodyPositivity #LoseHateNotWeight #LoveYourself #BodyPositivity #EverybodyIsBeautiful #HealthIsWealth #SelfLove #HonorMyCurves #CelebrateMySize #TheRealMe #BBW #SelfAcceptance #RealBeauty #IAmGoodEnough #IAmWorthy #LookWhatYouMadeMeDo #AllTheHashtagsBecauseThisIsImportant : @ownboudoir

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La mujer fue contactada por el Huffington Post de Estados Unidos, donde reconoció que recibió "una cantidad surrealista de apoyo".

"Hubo varios trolls que me dedicaron comentarios ofensivos (porque ya sabemos cómo es eso del anonimato en internet), pero la cantidad de personas —desconocidas— que se pusieron de mi parte me demuestra que, en primer lugar, hay esperanza para la aceptación personal y, en segundo, que estas conversaciones tienen que hacerse públicas, para que podamos seguir luchando de la manera adecuada por la aceptación del físico",

Y ahora, ¡a esperar por su feliz matrimonio! (suponemos que el entrenador no estará invitado).

 

Our ten year anniversary is a heartbeat away but we just signed up for forever.  Ps. I totally won #Cassopoly

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First official engagement event with some of my closest people who mean the world to me. Thank you @kriskling for throwing an INCREDIBLE party. You are the best & always go above and beyond what any friend would do. Cheers to having real, solid friends celebrate one of those most real moments of my life!  #woodyoumarryme #Woodingbells #shitjustgotteal #weddingwenches #matrimonymaids #sayyessquad #cheersbitches

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